This is a space for the cycle-breakers, the emotional translators, the girls who grew up too fast.
This is where we unpack the weight, rewrite the roles, and reclaim what was always ours.
You don’t have to earn your rest.
You don’t need permission to begin again.
You’re not alone anymore.
When you choose to live unapologetically—when you choose to reclaim your power—you liberate yourself. Instead of shrinking, you choose to stay rooted in your own truth. You allow yourself to take up space—emotionally, physically, and creatively. And you model to others (especially younger siblings, daughters, or peers) what empowered living looks like.
The very eldest daughter programming that can exhaust us also gave us the skills necessary to spot what needed to change within our family system. Even if we couldn’t change whatever it was at that exact moment, we noticed it. We felt the need for change. And we buried that knowledge within ourselves so that when the time came, we could rewrite the script in a way that felt authentic and real to us.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of everyone else’s needs on your shoulders—you’re not alone. Eldest daughters often become the steady one, the problem-solver, and the caretaker. We find ourself carrying invisible weight—responsibilities, unspoken expectations, and emotional labor—that quietly pile up until we’re stretched thin. So, I created something just for us: a ritual designed to help us pause, release, and reset so we can return to ourselves.